hey guys, this is really personal and i hope any negative comments will be kept to yourselves. i hate to bring this up, and my g/f would probably kill me if she knew, but i'm at my witts end here. here's the situation: my g/f weighs more than i do. i'm not that big though (5'10" about 135lbs). she's tried eating right and we go to the gym together at least 3 days a week. she's is so great for really trying her best here. and let me just say that I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH HER WEIGHT. however, she is very self-concious. she really beats herself up. i try to give her all the support i can with comments like, "you're beautiful regardless," and "i love you no matter what you look like." she comes back and says i "have" to say those things. a few questions.. 1. how can i get to believe i'm for real when i say that i WILL love her no matter what? 2. how can i offer more support for her? i know she really wants to loose weight, and i support whatever she wants to do. i just feel like me being too skinny (???) is bringing her self esteem down. ladies of the vag - is weight that big of a deal when it comes to a relationship? i really don't want this to be a thorn in our sides but i'm feeling that it is. i just want to help her out the best i can. thanks everyone!