So I me this girl, we went out, and really hit it off. We have plans to see each other again next week. Wonderful, right? Not rly...I hear through the grapevine that she's going to be hanging out with a guy she was/is dating this weekend, so now instead of having warm fuzzy feelings when I think of her, I think about that guy railing her this weekend. I've almost totally lost the urge to hang out with her again next week. I don't know why I'm having a hard time just putting it out of my mind, but when I see her again, all I'm going to be thinking about is how she was getting railed 3 days ago... This is totally irrational on my part, because I just met her and I can't realistically expect her to throw away everything she had going before me, and I don't even know if we'll turn into anything, but it's bugging me. My mind is programmed to think: If you know girl is banging other guys, don't take her seriously and treat her like a whore. Yet we really do get along well and I'd like to take her seriously.