Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by GiantRutgersFan, Feb 20, 2008.
by a couple years? i am 21 and a junior in college. Would like a girl who already graduated.
yeh? i bet you would. now what do you have to offer her?
Stop being a fan of Eli Gump. Do not want to associate yourself with social anxiety, unless you are loaded.
Just remember, it's HER decision making capabilities that you are trying to impair. Not yours.
since when does older = 20 yos?
girls that are attractive and have something to offer, usually don't date younger guys. especially ones that are still in college with no job and have homework. fucking enjoy college and all the girls and friends. you will NEVER EVER get a chance to be in an environment like that again. and if you think grad school will give you that chance...i assure you it is totally different.
so, summary....relax. find another 21 year old and have a great time. you will have the rest of you life to fuck older chics
I wholeheartedly agree with this post
fucking word ! get her tequilla
If you want to get a girl that has already graduated, odds are you're going to have to be just as independent as her.
This means having your own place, having a job, and at least having some sort of plan for what you are going to do when you get done with college (ie stay with current job, get better job, etc).
Once you get your independence and financial freedom, it's VERY hard to respect someone who does not yet have it. It sounds mean, but it's the truth.
I've got my own apartment, work full time, and will occasionally come across girls who are nice, but still live with their parents. It's very seriously think about dating them because the thought comes to mind: "Well, what are we going to do if she doesn't always want to come here? Go to her place and try to be quiet while her parents are sleeping?"
The more you get out on your own, the more you find yourself wanting to be with someone on the same level.
same way you get any other girl
It helps being cute or hung.
Being confident never hurts.
The thing they share, in contrast to you, is that they're older (duh, I know), a lot of them won't date younger guys because it draws attention to their age, which when dating a guy their own age is fine, but when dating you is a high number. So avoid talking about it or things that draw attention to how young you are in relation to them. Play in their arenas not yours. Do the things they like to do, these things will make you look mature and will get their defenses down. Then you bring out the girl in them and get them to act immature with you.
Then enjoy being in a relatinoship with a person, not classified as an older woman but someone who's into you and who you're into.
shit doesn't change THAT much, guys
I've read 2 threads today and I'm already sick of the typical bullshit everyone with almost 0 experience with this recommends.
chloroform. its what most pick up artists use.
tell her your two favorite things are commitment and changing yourself
WoW, thank you Mr. I only have 1 post. Great first POST please lurk less.
and your sperm swim like mark spitz lol i could have fun with this generalization for hours
stop going to the parties down on college ave...and start going to the coffee shop?
I've met a lot of weird people at coffee shops
he didnt ask how to meet normal people, it was how to meet older people. lol
Assisted living center?
All the fobby korean girls are there
thats where I work!
Go to Bennigan's or Old Country Buffet?
Insert other stereotypical old people restaurants here.
Denny's at any part of the day while the sun is still out 6 am is a mix of old people/drunks/stoners that wanted more than doughnuts.
i've been meeting a lot more older girls, but it's mostly because i've been hanging out with older people. i'm the youngest guy at my job at 23, and most others are around 30. i've been talking to a 29 year old lately, but i'm still not quite sure how i feel about dating older women