About 1.5 weeks ago I met this amazing girl - we clicked instantly, have hung out every day since. She is amazing. We kind of took it too fast early on, as in we both got kind of horny and we hooked up the 3rd day we'd known each other - no sex . The next day we both agreed to take it slower. Flash forward to 2 days ago - we wakeup at like 9am right when my roomate leaves and i ask whats up and she says she wants to kiss me..... so we start kissing....... my hands move down south eventually and I do what I do best with them and it drives her crazy. I stopped and she said we should stop, im like ok. She then tells me that it was amazing though We aren't "together". I talked to her about it last night and she told me the whole "its too soon" because I guess her and her ex bf really officially didn't breakup, but said lets keep our options open - she called him a few days ago and i guess he started crying when she said she was seeing other people I'm not an agressive type of guy. I would really really love to date/be with this girl. I'm just wondering what I can and can't do that would go over the line of being too aggressive - because I don't want to rush things at all. I'm not her boyfriend.... yet. On the other hand i don't want to play it so soft that she gets the wrong idea. I've just never been in this situation before.