How to hook up with a girl I'm interested in?

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  1. BlaZeR

    BlaZeR New Member

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    By hook up I just mean make out, that sorta thing. Normally I wouldn't have any problem with hooking up since I just get wasted and the chick is also pretty much gone but when it comes to soberness I pretty much have no experience. Theres going to be a party next week and i invited her to it, i think shes also interested but im not sure how to make my move? :hs:
     
  2. Mitchj

    Mitchj OT Supporter

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    is this the first girl you have been with when you're sober?
     
  3. BlaZeR

    BlaZeR New Member

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    Sadly, yes.
     
  4. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    flirt with her and see if she flirts back
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :ugh: Healthy...

    How about try talking to her and flirting? It's a start...
     
  6. BlaZeR

    BlaZeR New Member

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    I'm 16, my body can take a lot at this age :p I just don't know how to make a move :(, should I just go in for the kiss?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Christ, that's even worse.
     
  8. just tat

    just tat New Member

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    flirt with her. say hello, smile, touch her arm and such when you talk to her. avoid the drunk thing. it's kind of like taking advantage of her:ugh:. wouldn't you rather know she actually wants to be hooking up with you?
     
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    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    wow you sound like a real winner :hsugh:
     
  10. MattThom01

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    newsflash kiddo, we're not talking about your physical health. You're 16, and it sounds like your social life already revolves around alcohol.

    So here's what this tells women:

    Here's a guy with no life, with no social skills, and no worries about possibly taking advantage of a girl.

    Think about it.
     
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    kirbir New Member

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    Basically be yourself and have a conversation.. don't get pissed.. that's the easy way out.
     
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    jonno New Member

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  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl:
     
  14. Mitchj

    Mitchj OT Supporter

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    i don't exactly think thats a good idea if she shows no signs of being interested, flirting is easy and its easy to tell if she actually likes you
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I don't think it's totally the fact that he's a 16 year old drinking...I think it has more to do with the fact that at 16 he's all proud about how he's always so wasted and now he doesn't even have social skills to just talking and flirt with a girl unless she's plastered as well...It's just kind of sad really.
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I loved getting smashed when I was 16. I don't really drink these days.

    I loved getting smashed because of a repressive anti-alcohol strain in American culture that made an American kid like myself feel rebellious when I started drinking.

    The reason we're seeing all this anti-16-yr-old-drinking in this thread is the same strain.

    Puritanism isn't rational... it's emotional.

    To the OP, go practice some pick-up? How big is your school?
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Oh yeah I do, I wanted to fuck everything that moved...:rofl:
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    that's not what I was saying bro :hs: for all I know nobody in this thread touched alcohol until they were 21.

    I'm not going to "write down", just bc some people in this forum can't parse long sentences.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    YOU CALM DOWN YOU FUCKING RAT BASTARD FUCK.

    I'll try to keep it short for you.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I'm cool as a cucumber
     
  21. BlackIce72

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    I might have drank a bit at 16 but getting wasted on a regular basis at any age is a sign of immaturity in my book.

    Please don't respond to this to disagree because I said IN MY BOOK.

    Just flirt, man. Show her you aren't some impotent weirdo. Don't be a creep, but remind her you've got a dick.

    God that could go badly.
     
  22. BlaZeR

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    Haha thanks for the advice guys. The school I go to is pretty massive, its holidays here and there pretty much is a party every 2 nights. At all the parties I go to seriously all the girls are dumb whores and i'm not at all interested in whores. About the alcohol thing, I only occasionally drink if it's a massive party,do some stupid shit and have a good time with the boys.
     
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    I do like the idea of exploring why there is the whole anti-be-cool-drink-all-you-can-teenage lifestyle going on. Are they really that upset at society/parents? I guess that's for another thread.

    Just be yourself, you are 16, save yourself the time and listen to the people on here. The quicker you find yourself the more comfortable you will be with doing what you want to do, esp. these things that you don't see yourself doing. It's all about confidence in oneself.
     

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