I met this guy last weekend at a St. Patrick's Day party, and we got to talking for a bit. I found out he wanted to go to a dance on campus that I was going to with my friends, so I offered him a ride. We danced maybe a song or two together with my friends there (not grinding, just fun friendly dancing if you know what I mean), and then parted ways for a bit. When it was over he asked if my friends and I would like to go back to his brother's house, who he was staying with, to watch a movie for a bit. I drove him back over there, and we hung out for a bit before saying goodbye. He didnt make any advances or anything, and I repeatedly talked about my boyfriend and that didnt make him turn around and walk away like it usually does for guys that are only interested in getting with me. The next day, I had a friend request from him on facebook, and he IMed me as soon as I signed online. I ignored him when he IMed me and I havent been on since. He sent me a message a couple of days ago on facebook saying "hey I'm going to be on campus on thursday, and I'd really like to see you. Message me back!" I havent responded yet, and I dont really know what to do. I feel like I couldnt have been more clear that I'm in a very serious relationship, so maybe he just wants to be friends and I'm blowing this whole thing out of proportion? Or do you think he really is interested and just doesnt care? Should I just continue to ignore him, or should I say something like "i have two exams on friday so i cant hang out," which is the truth anyway. Or should I just outright say "I dont want to see you, I'm in a serious relationship and I dont think this is appropriate"? I dont want to hurt his feelings, but he gives me a weird feeling for some reason. Also he's pretty significantly older so I feel he could probably handle it. ugh. Advice needed and appreciated.