so me and this guy i had been dating for a while and broke up about 3 months ago or so. during this seperation time we had been still be having sex (started as friends who would of known what it would turn into...? duh.) well, we finally actually stopped that and are just nothing. we have been nothing for about a month now. when him and i were together i was so head over heels for him and then he just broke my heart one day. and now even 3 months later i still feel just as hurt by him as i did the day we broke up. unfortunately, we wound up in the same comm class at school so I am forced to still see him every tues/thurs..and the first day of class i just ignored him and then i got this nasty phone call after school bitching at me for ignoring him.. you know this just sucks. cause i just want him out of my life. he has always had this whole "i wanna be friends" rant but you know what..i cant. i have told him that time and time again. and finally, this weekend i felt like i was finally doing well. i had been going out with my friends and having a ton of fun and not even thinking about him (huge step for me) and OF COURSE! when things start to get better..he calls, or instant messages me. it really makes me mad that i let him have this power over me even months later. i dont even think he knows he has it. Like, this week we had barely said 2 words to each other and now FRIDAY and SATURDAY night he has called me to see what im doing. im like WTF. just go away. You have done you're damage now just leave me alone. Im almost 15649879% positive he knows I have a dislike for him because the other day he sent me an im saying "why r u so mean to me" and then tried to play it off as a joke. I dont know if he is just stupid and doesnt get it when i tell him i want him to go away or part of me thinks he thinks im kidding. im not sure. also, everytime since we have broken up and he has either seen me with another guy or found out I was on a date or something he trips his ass on me and yells and screams. who does he think he is? and why does he think he has any right to do this to me? everytime he does this shit i say to him "YOU BROKE UP WITH ME, REMEMBER??" why wont he just go away? i feel like even though we are totally done he still tries to toy with me.