I'm 25 years old....was w/ my ex 6 years (yes, a very long time for someone my age), found out she was cheating/seeing another dude b/c emails i found, we broke up. she was my best friend, we did everything together, i found her extremely attractive & the sex was easily the best i've had (we also lived together 5 of those years, so that made it more difficult). some of you may remember all this from a previous thread (we've been broken up 8 months now)...anyways, It is so hard for me to move on & forget about her...there is not a day that goes by that i don't think about her one way or another. i know that things could never work between us again b/c of everything that happened & i still cant move on. it's like every girl that comes to me, i have no interest in... i feel like no one compares to my ex in the fact that we had so much in common & got along & i found her so attractive (i like a specific girl...short, nice booty, pretty w/a clear face & prefer dark hair)..girls that aren't that i have no interest in/dont give them a chance. THEN if i see a girl that i'm attracted to or think i could potentially like, i freeze up & have NO GAME AT ALL (back when i was single, i used to have so much game & hooked up w/ tons & tons of girls)... I used to be really confident & borderline cocky/arrogant....now since me & my ex broke up, I feel depressed & just cant move on or can't talk to girls anymore...not to sound cocky, but i consider myself to be top 10% of guys in the looks department, but since the breakup i've felt depressed the past 8 or so months, i feel boring & have no game at all anymore. I go out to the bars on the weekends & have girls coming up to me, but w/ no game & the fact that hooking up w/ random girls isn't my thing anymore, nothing happens. at this point in my life, i'm not really looking for bar sluts or hooking up w/ random girls... i'd rather just be w/ a girl i really care about, am attracted to, get along w/, good sex , etc... basically the whole package of a good/healthy relationship. this is never going to happen if i can't get my ex off my mind & get my game back. sorry for the sloppy post, but im tired & just typed it up real fast.