Sadly for me I've just had a three year relationship end. I made a few choices in my life which make me happy and provide me with more financial security (although an outside source is going to see this as well and truly the opposite). Now although my spouse (ex) was completely supportive of this it led to the collapse of our relationship. I proved over a year that what I was doing was not only profitable, but that I was good at it and really enjoyed what I was doing. Still, our relationship ended and now I have to move on. The problem I have now is that I don't know how to move on. Whilst she has already pursued a few other guys and has been on a few dates (we're still friends and we've talked about these things - which is hard but I think healthy) I just don't feel right about it. I don't feel like I'm single - Really all I want to do is have a physical relationship with a girl right now after being in a long term relationship... but after being in a relationship for three years I really don't know how to approach this anymore. Suggestions for forgetting the past and making a new future appreciated.