Hey Guys, I've posted here in the past a couple times so I kinda know the drill. Here's the background info. My GF and I have been going out for 7 months now which is the longest relationship I've been in. We met at university, and really hit it off well. We are both in love with each other and I am pretty sure we have something very special. I trust her completely 100% and she is getting to that way with me also. However, before us, she was dating someone in high school for 2-3 years. He cheated on her, broke her heart, and they split up. Note: there was a one or more year gap between their breakup and us finding each other so I have no worries about being "the rebound" at all. The thing is, her best friend in the world happens to be best friends with her ex. I know. Anyways, whenever her bf calls my GF to hang out and she goes over, the ex is there too. Now the issue at hand. Recently (twice actually) the ex has made passes for my GF at parties which her bf is throwing. He even went as far as to kiss her and tell her he loves her. I completely trust her when she tells me she stopped him right there and went home, and that she wants no one else but me. Trust is not the issue at hand here (although it might look like it). The real question is how do I deal with her ex and best friend? I think I know how I want to react but I want to get a couple opinions from here so I know what she'll say or I can change what I'm going to do. Today again my GF was asked by her best friend to come over tonight to hang out and was told her ex was going to be there. Now I thought I was good friends with the "best friend" character, however, to me it almost seems like she is trying to break us up. Maybe I'm just being jealous here, or greedy about my GF, but this "best friend" knows that the ex tried something on my GF, is best friends with the ex, knows I can't attend the party since I live 2 hours away, but yet still knows that my GF and I are serious. In terms of the ex, I've never had to deal with one before so I want to make sure mainly that I don't piss off my gf. I could care less about the ex and bf but I want to make my GF happy and give her the life she deserves. However, I also want to fight for my love and not seem like a pushover. So I'm sort of torn between taking the higher road and beating the shit out of this guy. Thoughts? Conclusion. I guess all I'm really asking is do I confront my gf with all this? Should I talk with her about my suspicions about her best friend? How do I deal with the best friend issue - should I confront her? How do I deal with ex issue - class or glass? Thanks for any help and I'll try and sort this out/make it less confusing. Just needed to vent and get this out of my system.