Is there any way you can switch it on and off? How do you control your emotions? To me it has always been a matter of time. But generally I have a hard time getting my guards up and killing the unnecessary emotions. I don't transfer my sadness to others tho and mostly keep all the emotions for myself. I remember this thing about scarlet in "gone with the wind", she used to tell herself "I think about it tomorrow" whenever something happened that was unpleasant and could make her sad and then she would never think about it, always saying tomorrow or later. I used this technique when I was much younger and it actually helped me. Right now it doesn't! Any new idea? I just need a quick fix now!