Alright, last night was the night I was going to ask this girl out. I've been interested in her for about a month now and last night was going to be that night. Before I even started hitting on her I made sure she wasn't dating anyone because she had a close guyfriend and alot of people thought they were dating but I made sure like 5 times over they weren't dating. Well someone tipped this guyfriend off that last night was the night or he found outsomehow the second I showed up with them I was going to take her for a walk and do all of it he's like hey we need to talk and before I even had a chance he asked her out first ( really pissed me off ). She's torn between us, she told me she really doesn't know what to do she didn't really mean it when she said yes to this guy it's just they are really close friends and I guess it was sorta something that she was just going to go along with. And for me I wouldn't have cared I would have backed down the second I heard except for the fact it was like approx 15 minutes before I was going to ask her. Sooo me and this guy we talked and like I guess we've left things open and up to this girl. I don't mind so much if she doesn't go with me but I just am not seeing these two together she isn't the type of girl that smokes weed / drinks at all and this guy does it pretty much every week or more. I guess I'm just freaking out is there anything I can do without looking like an idiot? I havn't done anything yet and I know it can be very touchy is it probably best to let her totally decide and sit back? I just feel really bad I tried so hard to not put her in this position and she knows that but just arghh soo yea my question is anythings I can do to help maybe show that I'm a better choice or atleast that I think I am without totally fuxoring things up?