Basically if you are the Office fan, I am kinda in Jim/Pam situation. But here are more details. So I started my new job back in September of this year. It is a government job and I guess this my first "real" job that I got after I graduated from my college. (Although I previously had other jobs -including working in an office- before.) There were several other people who got hired at the same time as me. As we went though the training for the first few weeks together, we became closer. Couple of us ended up in a same team and we ended up sitting in a same area. We are also in a same age group. We've been getting along quite well so far and everyone is always being friendly and helpful to each other. Now there is this girl -my co-worker who started this job with me- who sits across from me at work. I think I am starting to fall for her. I don't know whether I just have a crush on her or not. But I just can't stop thinking about her and I am beginning to like her a lot. (Even when I am with my own GF, I can't stop thinking about her. I probably spend more time with my co-worker than my GF.) I am the kind of person who would say not to get involved with your co-workers. I've never dreamed of getting involved with any of my co-workers and I always try my best to keep my personal life and work life separate. At first, this girl was nothing more than a co-worker. When I first met her I thought, "She's cute but she's not my type." Really, it was nothing more than that. As we are in a same division, we spend a lot of time together. We have lunch together everyday. So far, we've been getting along very well. As I get to know more about her and get to know what she is like (and also things she likes to do), I am really beginning to like her. I know it's really cheesy to say but she is beginning to look really beautiful to me and I am thinking that she could very well be my ideal girl. Usually, I got involved with someone because of physical attraction... but this is bit different. She's always being nice to me and she brings me treats/snacks. But I know that this co-worker has a BF and that she doesn't like me in any other way. I try to keep telling myself that I am probably just her co-worker. I don't know what to do. On one hand, I really do care about the job and this job will be a great stepping stone for a good career and jobs. On the other hand, I like going to work because I know that she will be there and she always makes me smile. Even when I am stressed out at work, she makes me feel better. So what do I do? I know not to get involved with co-workers and this is probably just a one-sided love. But I just can't stop thinking about her and it's really driving me crazy.