So the last few months, I've been going to a fetish club as a single. When I met the owner of the club, she was really nice and forward as to getting me to the club but it seems the other patrons aren't as inviting. I find it difficult to initiate conversation, as it's painfully obvious I would be sexually attractive to the women I'm talking to and we all know how those conversations go sometimes. A couple of times, I've had guys initiate conversations, which is dandy fine with me because I'm all about getting to know everyone, but it's just a passing conversation and I'm back to being creepy single guy. So the question, I pose to OT FS'ers, those that go to fetish clubs, how did you get integrated and how long did it take?