My bf really wants to try anal, and I'd like to also, for him and to try it. We've tried it before but it hurts so bad, and I feel bad that we can't afterward. We've used tons of lube, but I think we need to get a different kind, we use astroglide and it turns sticky quick. I was wondering any ways to make it easier. I thought about gettin a thin vibe and working my way up to him??? Any suggestions.