i feel that i can't really keep my relationship with my girlfriend to what i would like it to be. first off, its highschool relationship, my second serious relationship, and her first. Some parts of our relationship seem to be going to the dogs, and i think that its my fault. We have both been very busy lately with work, and school, and we haven't been able to spend much time together. Things have changed alot since we first started going out. I realize this is normal, but i am also starting to think that what she wants in a relationship is something totally different than what i want. i don't want this to go to the dumps because i really like her, and can see us being together for a long time. Im kinda getting the vibe that she needs me as support, someone to talk too, which is often via phone... but it doesn't come down to much more than that. it seems like she wants to spend more time with her girlfriends than me. I think her friends put alot of pressure on her to hang out with them over me. I would like to spend as much time with her as possible, but I am starting to realize that this is not going to happen. Should i just get used to how things are, or is there something that i can do to spark this thing back up, and make her want to spend time with me over her friends.