i was just looking for some advice on my situation. I think I'm blinded by love but the relationship just doesnt feel the same. Here's the situation: different schools, about 2 hours apart. still young and dumb. she's a great girl with an actual sense of humor and usually love being around her. sex life is complicated. she gives great head but we cant have sex. Her vag is so small (she's 5') that it hurts me, so needless to say she's in even worse pain... because her mother is clueless and would disown her for having sex (i hate being young sometimes) she cant realistically go to the gyno. she says she'll try to go at college but she wont. not because she doesnt want to but she'll never get around to it because she's busy. so theres that... lately our relationship has been strained because im pretty fed up with the sexual side and its affecting the rest of our time together. i feel bad but its the truth. i realize we are high school sweethearts and it wont work out but it sucks because on so many levels we connect and agree. i guess i painted a pretty grim picture but the relationship is good generally speaking. im partly venting i just want to feel good about it ya know?