Last night my bf of 6 years (we are both each others firsts) told me he was watching some HBO show where men were letting other guys have sex with their wives/gfs. He seemed overly into the conversation so I asked him what he thought about it and he said he's entertained the idea before. We talked about it for a little while over IM's and on the phone but nothing too serious, or so I thought (I only said that it might be okay with me sometime in the future, but there were a lot of factors). I asked him why he would want to share me with another guy but the only answer I could really get out of him was that it would be fun to watch another guy with me... Anyway, I called him after I got out of class today and he tells me that he talked to one of his friends about our conversation. Then later he says that he actually asked his friend if he wanted to... I never told him that it was okay to ask his friend about this and I am really embarrassed. My bf made it sound out like I was the one wanting sex from his friend and now I feel like avoiding his friend at all costs. He said he talked about it over google chat and I asked to see the conversation and he didn't want to show it to me. He finally showed me tonight and it really pissed me off. I don't understand why he would cross those lines with me And is there more to what he is telling me about why he wants this so bad? Sorry if it is really long or doesn't make sense.