My story. I'm 21, Haven't had many relationships and life is generally boring for me. I have a job that doesn't require me to leave the apartment so there really isn't much going out. I live away from family and friends so i'm alone.. a lot. I met someone online and things were seemingly perfect for the longest time. We talked for about 2months before we decided we'd finally meet. When we did meet, Everything was amazing. We had fun, We clicked well, It really was everything I could hope for. Anyhow, After that first weekend together it was time for me to leave. I went home, We still talked every day/night, Things were great. We were both dealing with the long distance very well, we knew the distance would end sooner than later, I would have moved to her instantly. We met up a few more times and again, Everything was.. Perfect. No fights, Amazing nights, We spent them together as a couple. It was just.. too good to be true. We were completely and totally in love with each other, Or so I thought. I had ended up flying up to see her once again (because she wanted me too, it had only been a little over a week since we had seen each other), We had another amazing weekend. Everything went well, as it had been all along. We spent every night together. She wanted to go look at apartments with me in her area which was totally okay with me. I was willing to move up to her and she knew that. .. After the weekend ended, I jumped on the plane back home. Not a single thing went wrong that entire weekend, But.. When I got home she told me that she was 'unsure of us'. that she didn't want to rush into anything. .. I was okay with that, I didn't want to rush her. But then she said she wanted to start seeing other people until she was actually sure of us. ;| Long story short, She decided to end 'us' later that day as a couple. Because after 6months still being unsure of the relationship she wasn't sure if she'd ever be. She told me countless times that "I was the one" that "she wanted to be with me forever", I don't understand where things went so wrong. she said she was upset with herself for not being anywhere near as dedicated to the relationship as i was. I can't bring myself to stop thinking of her. I had no real closure up until recently. She's already with another guy 2 weeks later. :\ What can I do to get her out of my mind? I'm not a bounce back type of person so jumping into another relationship isn't going to do anything. I've tried keeping myself busy, Going tot he gym, Beach and other random activites. But, for some reason - I just randomly think of her again. :\ Talk some sense into me, please.. I'm tired of being heartbroken over something that doesn't deserve my time but gets it anyhow. I'm pathetic. I know.