Having a significant other isn't something I really care to have in the next 6 years of my life. When I'm alone, I don't secretly get depressed because I don't have a girlfriend or that I don't get laid regularly. Am I the only one? I told a friend of mine "I want to be happy with myself, before I'm happy with somebody else." Does anybody else feel this way? I'm a 19 year old straight male, I'm not a virgin and have never been in any "real" relationship. Is there something wrong with me? Is it wrong that I don't believe something is wrong with me? What is it with societies standards that you must have a loving relationship with a member of the opposite (or same, depending how you swing) sex? Why can't I just be alone? ...I don't know.