I've been with this girl off and on now for nearly 3 years. We are eachothers first loves and we both lost our virginity to eachother. We broke up last summer and she did got with other guys, while most of the summer I was miserable. We got back together earlier this winter and things were absolutely perfect and she toldm e she had never been happier. But then we had a couple fights, and she found out i had talked to this other girl on the side for a while. That was about 3 weeks, but she has not got over it since when she said she WAS getting over it. I have been miserable since. She is on the same person she was...she never gives me any affection, never calls me, and never volunteers to hang out with me. Most of the time when i try to kiss her and hug her she stays mainly limp and i feel like im trying to love a brick wall. When I try to talk to her abotu how I feel, she blows up and we start to argue. She thinks of it as her not being able to do anyhting right, and her being so horrible. At this point i think she's just trying to get me to break up with her. I don't know what to do, being so close to valentines day and not wanting to spend it alone.