Sometimes I like to be submissive. But it leaves me feeling this weirdly guilty thing like I'm not being Teh Man. Meanwhile I've developed a strong dominant streak in bed so it's not usually an issue - but I feel like this is an important thing for me to work out in order to be sexually complete as a man. I'd post this in Freakyshiat but this is more of a philosophical / relationship / feelings type thread than it is a sexual thread, so I figured it made more sense with our lovely vaginarium audience. I think this post I read on mASF sums it up best: "I go out and pick-up, do all these alpha behaviors and stuff to get these women to have sex with me. Then when I actually get them in bed, I go all sub... you know, have them tie me up & spank my ass & shit. They almost always get into it, since I lead them in that direction, and when they don’t I have no problem just banging them in a regular style. I mean, they never leave unsatisfied, I just think it’s funny how I get them by being this fucking bad ass motherfucker, when I just wanna be their little bitch. I mean, I guess in the end I’m still the dominant one since they are doing what I want them to do; it seems kinda incongruent, tho." That's about where I am. If anyone can offer rationalizations for why I shouldn't feel weird going sub I'd appreciate it.