I finally lost it

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  1. fallenauthority

    fallenauthority OT Supporter

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    Im 18, and last night I finally lost my virginity but there was a problem. We had sex for an hour, and I didnt finish. wtf. I didnt know that was possible, especially for a first timer. I was pretty nervous, Ill admit, could that have caused me to not finish?
     
  2. verdiocchi

    verdiocchi Oh snap!

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    You could have been too nervous. I'm guessing it was all mental. Did you use a condom? Cause that can cause problems too depending on what kind you used. Try a different kind next time. And relax.
     
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    thesuffering New Member

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    did she know you didnt finish? what did she say about it?

    ouch, that would suck...
     
  4. Gregsaidthat

    Gregsaidthat "Individuality is the new conformity"

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    That kinda sucks for you that you didn't go.

    Well, try for it next time I guess.
     
  5. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    this has happened to me several times in the past

    no big deal
     
  6. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    happened to me my first time too. don't worry about it.

    it will change once you relax a bit
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Proving why the first time is almost always awkward and not as big a deal as it's made out to be. Just calm down and try and have fun.
     
  8. Durka Durka

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    i'm glad to say that my first time was exactly what i expected and hoped for and i feel pretty fortunate for it.
     
  9. Baited

    Baited Fur Ballin OT Supporter

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    lol that happened my first time too (went for an hour, she soaked the sheets and i still couldn't get off... I just said fuck it and pretended like i finished and threw the condom out)
    the condom sucked too it was an extra strength trojan or something a friend gave to me :ugh:

    I only use ultra thins now if I have to :bigthumb:
     
  10. NCS

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    i wouldnt worry. even now it happens to me fairly often.
     
  11. Abomb

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    its really not a big deal...........
     
  12. calisteph6

    calisteph6 Active Member

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    Happens when you're nervous. You wern't drunk right?
     
  13. HuskiRuski

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    no big deal. you were probably thinking too much about "am i doing good? is she liking it?" and you weren't focusing enough on enjoying it yourself.

    it happens to all of us every once in a while. it happened to me my first time also and it's really not a big deal. don't worry about it.
     
  14. Hawkal

    Hawkal dammit,wtf? OT Supporter

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    :jealous: I finish waaay too early. You could have bigger problems to be worrying about. =P
     
  15. fallenauthority

    fallenauthority OT Supporter

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    No there was no condom, She is on birth control, I know she is clean.
    We did it again today this afternoon, we got into it doggy and i finished. Then tonight, we went at it a couple positions and i ended up going for an hour again without finishing.
    She is very understanding of it. Going again tomorrow morning. Will update.
     
  16. busydoingnothing

    busydoingnothing A broken man too tough to cry

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    This is pretty damn common, my friend. I didn't cum for about a month from sex. It's partly mental, the pressure and worry and all that; that makes it a hundred times harder. It's also partly physical. This is a new form of stimulation for you; you're not quite used to it. You're used to jerking yourself off, so you know exactly all the moves you have to pull to make everything feel good. Now you have an external form of pleasure, not quite something you're used to.

    Best advice is to relax, concentrate on the task, concentrate on how good it feels, concentrate on making HER feel good. Then before you know it...she's pregnant!

    I kid, I kid. Be careful. Raw dogging is great and all, but BC isn't 100% safe.
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: You had sex for your first time without a condom just because she says she's on birthcontrol and you think she's clean? Good god, we'll probably seeing you back in the Vag soon with either a pregnancy scare or an STD within the next few months I'm sure. Don't be an idiot kid!
     
  18. Yail Bloor

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    Men:

    Never, ever forget that the purpose of our sex drive, for both males and females, is for REPRODUCTION.

    Even if she SAYS she doesn't want a baby, her body may want to get pregnant with your child.

    You can't trust her word when it comes to birth control.
     
  19. Durka Durka

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    ^ i was stupid like that and luckily enough dodged the bullet.
     
  20. fallenauthority

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    Ive known her for 3 years. I know her better than that.

    Anyway, we did again this morning, and it lasted like 45 minutes and i didnt finish again. wtf. this is really making me think something is wrong with me.
     
  21. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I'm glad, seeing as how you are dumb enough to keep fucking her without a condom. I don't want to see another 18 year old couple with an unwanted baby, or worse a young couple who uses abortion as a crutch because they willingly depended solely on BC to prevent a kid :rolleyes:
     
  22. kronik85

    kronik85 New Member

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    um, don't we all? what else do you do to prevent a kid, abstain from sex?
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Uh der, a condom + BC genius.
     
  24. HuskiRuski

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    you said you already came once from having sex with her. that means you're physically able to do it. the problem (if you can call it that) is in your head.

    and use a condom.
     
  25. Ago816

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    You're probably just still nervous bro. I remember the first 3-4 times I had sex with my newest girlfriend, I was nervous about going too fast and ended up doing it for like an hour and 25 mins without going. Its really just all mental.
     

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