i guess my wife is having a miscarriage

Mr Chan

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We've gone through that. It's tough but you're right. Easier to go through it early than late.
 
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Sucks man. Make sure she is able to talk to someone. :/
this is hard because i don't think she would want to talk to her girlfriends about it - it's embarrassing to her, not in a taboo way, but in a "there's something wrong with me" kind of way

so i think it's just gonna be me. hopefully we can get pregnant again next round.
 

Marty

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this is hard because i don't think she would want to talk to her girlfriends about it - it's embarrassing to her, not in a taboo way, but in a "there's something wrong with me" kind of way

so i think it's just gonna be me. hopefully we can get pregnant again next round.
Yes women often feel “broken” with challenges like this and that’s the worst. Hopefully she can talk to her health care provider and maybe find some online groups that can share emotions and coping mechanisms
 

lil*o*g

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My wife and I miscarried earlier this year. Baby would've been born this month. I've been in my feels about it a lil bit lately. It's tough for sure. Support your wife. She's likely feeling things you can't even imagine. Hopefully, a healthy pregnancy will happen for you two in the near future.
 

Normie

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this is hard because i don't think she would want to talk to her girlfriends about it - it's embarrassing to her, not in a taboo way, but in a "there's something wrong with me" kind of way

so i think it's just gonna be me. hopefully we can get pregnant again next round.
Maybe go see a counselor together. Good luck on getting preggo again, but let her body rest and reset first
 

havenfx

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Wife and I are ttc for the last few months. Can't imagine how devastating a miscarriage would be
 

pimpofthenation

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Sorry to hear, but both of you please know, as stated, it happens a lot more than you know. It’s just not something women share even in some more intimate relationships with friends. There’s an unwarranted stigma that goes with it. I went through it with my ex-wife. Once we did, we felt better knowing we were far from alone and there is support out there

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