I just started dating this girl, we're both 21, and we were hanging out at her place last night. We started messing around, we were both naked from the waist up, and we realized by talking that we both really inexperienced virgins. I gues she figured I had had more experience, and I had thought she was more experienced also. So we ended up having the most hilariously akward honor-student experience ever. I start fingering her (a first for me) and she whips out my junk and starts playing with it (a first for her, I'm thinking), and we just start laughing at how bad we are. But somehow, we were both really comfortable with it. She had to stop a few times and ask me what I wanted her to do, she was really self-concious and caught-up with the whole making-me-reach-orgasm thing. We were smiling and laughing and talking, and after a while, she finally made me come from the handjob. Anyhow, it was just really funny, it was really un-sexy but at the same time, incredibly intimate. I wish we would have gotten drunk first...I can't help but wonder if this is how some people's wedding nights are like when both partners are virgins. When does it get more normal?