I'm having issues with my best friends girlfriend. She has many histrionic symptoms and likes to create alot of drama. My girlfriend, one of her really good friends has also gotten involved in this situation. Best friend will be represented by D His girlfriend will be J My girlfriend will be R The situation: Last Wednesday we were sitting around and she was eating non-buttered popcorn and she said "look how healthy I'm being!" and I said "Yeah, and I took the packaging and said "Oh, it only has 10 grams of fat, not bad at all." She smiled and we continued to talk about something else. About four of our friends witnessed this and agree that this is exactly what happened. Later that day, R came up to me and said that J and another friend had gotten into a tiff. J and the other friend, whom I will refer to as P got into an argument. I don't know exactly what happened because I personally didn't witness it, but J said to P that I made fun of her for eating popcorn that had 100 grams of fat. P told the people who witnessed it and they also said that never happened. J started making up a lot of other rumors about me at this point saying that I have called her "fat" and make fun of what she eats all of the time. I have never, ever made fun of her or what she eats to her face ever. I have to reason to rip on her, all it ever does is create problems. R and I were talking later and she was telling me how she agrees with me and J usually distorts situations. A lot of our mutual friend told me that this happens a lot and that she does it all of the time. J heard that R said this about her and got really mad at her. R stood up for herself and told her that its true and that she does and its really rude. At the end of this convo J said to R "when he dumps you, dont come crying to me." D and I are cool, so I think. He really wants me to get along with J, but every time I try, she makes up these situations. I feel as if she is trying to create these situations to keep us from being friends, and so she can have D all to herself. Of course, she wont ruin our friendship because we will be friends no matter what and this is just a little high school relationship, but I still feel invaded. I have told him that I can't be friends with her, but when I do that she gets all pissed and makes a huge scene. I just want everything to be peaceful. I want R to be happy and D to be happy, but nothing works. I don't know what to do anymore.