Let me humiliate myself and give a brief description of my dating/sex life, which can be sum up in a few secs. I'm 26 yrs old and I've never dated anyone in my life. Dating meaning meet a girl somewhere and go out to a movie or a dinner and have a decent conversation like I see everyone else do. In high school and college I did manage to talk to several females, but everytime I asked them to hang out I would get a typical respond like "i can't come out on fri" or "i'm busy" or "I can't stay out late" or "I have to go home and I don't hang out" and the excuses go on forever. After my college years I decide to lose my virginity to a escort, which was a few years ago. I've been using escorts since then every now and then and yes I do use a condom, but I don't want to rely on escorts anymore. Everytime I go w/ my friends to hangout they always manage to meet girls, whether its at a bar, club, mall, etc and i'm always left in the dust. At the same time I always see people around me w/ girls and they always say its easy. I have browse through some parts of the forum and most people say its easy to get a date. Well right now I can't even get a date if my life depends on it. The people that say its easy, how do they do it?