I was planning the usual flowers, dinner, drinks and a hotel the Falls on V-day BUT it seems she wants more. These diamond ads during sporting events really screw the guys over. She's hinting at a couples rings but i've only been seeing her for a month. If it comes to it, do I buy both or hers and then she buys mine? I really would rather not do this until way later even though we're getting along very well. I don't want to dump even 2-3k for a basic ring she wants because it has a bloody rock on it. It's not an engagement ring-- if it was I would have ran away, but isn't it too early for even any symbolic gift?