I've always had a hard time orgasming. I know there are a ton of threads on this, but mine is a bit more chronic than most. It started back when i was 15, and having phenomenal sex with the 18 year old drill team captain. The first GF and I did everything under the sun, but never once orgasmed. Then, I had a few with a girl a couple years later. So far the best was an italian girl I dated for about a year. I've never had an orgasm from anything but sex where I'm standing or her legs on my shoulders. Its not like a lack of comfort or a lack of stimulation, because its all there. I'm 27 years old, and now I can't really stay hard longer than 30 minutes or so, even though i'm totally into it. I've had a lot of sex over lets say the last 13 years, and I think I should be able to get off like most at some point. I had the shakes 2 times with the italian girl...I really, really want that to happen again. I don't even remember what it was like aside from it being better than any drug or feeling I've ever known. I'm very comfortable with the girl I'm sleeping with now, and we both really like each other and I feel the intense emotional connection is there, so maybe it will happen this weekend.