It's really quite embarassing to talk about this, but here goes.... I met a girl two months back. She led me on from the beginning. It caused me problems in the past, but I went along with it. Well, long story short, she has become a significant part of my life in just two months. We do lots together, we enjoy our time together, sex is great, yadda. About 4 days ago she started to act real strange. I thought she was just on her period or something. I can usually pick out signs during sex which are obvious. She started talking about this guy she used to date and how she still has feelings for him. Yeah, thats fine. I told her long ago that I didn't care if she even dated other guys. If she wanted to be with me, she would make her decision. And now she told me tonight that she thought we would function better as friends. I told her that wasn't an option as I still had feelings for her. At the same time she claims that she doesn't want to lose me either. She still wants to be my girlfriend. Instead of making this part of the story long I will just shorten it by saying that she confuses the living shit out of me sometimes. Im an informed guy when it comes to dating. I know all the signs that a girl isn't interested, but I don't see them all in her. I respect and understand that she has a confusing life and doesn't really know what she wants. I've dated a lot of girls and know what I want in a partner and I know I really like this girl but I can't quite explain it in a way that she would understand. Do I abort or try to work it out? Im trying to give her space right now and if she wants to call me and do something, she has my number.