Especially in relationships. It all started when I met my ex, well call her A. At first, we got along great, could see us together a long time, no problems at all. Then, I slowly discovered that all she wanted was a kid. She didnt care about me, the relationship, or anything. Soon after, I found out she had cheated on me, maybe even with more than one guy. This ruined my view of relationships. My current g/f and I get along great, I feel like she is the first person to actually care about me, she has proven this again and again. She even promised to stay with me after finding out my ex was pregnant, saying that "no matter what happens I want you to promise that we will stay together". I did, we both really want to be with each other. However, I cant help but think that she too has some "alternate reason". I very seriously doubt it, but the thought is just there. She is totally different from my ex, she hates drama (A loved to create it), she has a much simpler life (doesnt party, drink, smoke, or anything), and is basically the female version of me. We have the same beliefs about relationships, believe that cheating is never acceptable, and we are both good at working out problems, we have never actually "fought" about anything. Gotten upset? Yes. But we always are able to find some solution. Still, how can I be 100% sure she truly cares about me and loves me like I do her? I dont really know how to explain it, I know she does, as she said "If I didnt truly love and care about you, I would have hung up the phone after you told me" about my ex being pregnant. That right there helped ease my fears alot. Still, what can I do to keep her attracted and into the relationship? Just so you know, I havent let on to her about this, I dont want to seem like Im afraid to lose her or anything. Just the opposite in fact, she is afraid of losing me, though Ive assured her that as long as she stays committed, Im not goin anywhere.