I'm stuck in a rut in life, not very happy, and I don't know what to really do next. Background: 25 years old, male Job: I have been working over 2 years for a public utility company making good money (~50k) but I honestly hate my job. I don't know why (maybe because I'm young, new, different, etc) I am treated pretty poorly at work. I have a few friends at work, but I have one guy on my shift who constantly harasses me and a supervisor who fills in for my own supervisor from time to time who harasses me. I actually called the corporate HR office yesterday to talk to them about the supervisor but no one was available to speak and they said they would call me back Monday. Schooling: I went to community college for 2 years and was 3 credits away from a general Associates degree, when I transferred to a 4 year university where I did 'ok' but not great. I left there after 2 years when I started to feel like the degree I was working towards (Kinesiology) wasn't the direction I really wanted to head in. That was the point where I moved back home and applied for the current job. Housing: I bought a pretty nice house almost exactly 1 year ago, it's about 30 minutes away from where I grew up. I spend most of my time doing projects around the house. It keeps me busy which is a good thing. But right now, I'm doing a kitchen remodel that I desperately need to finish. Family and Friends: Besides my coworkers, my family is basically all of my social interaction. We are very close which is a great help when I'm down. I have alot of 'friends' but for whatever reason (college, moved away) I don't have any that are close enough to talk to on any regular basis. Girls: I was always really good with girls/women but that seems to have stopped. I have been hanging out with my ex, but I don't know if I see that going anywhere. Hobbies: I workout often (at a YMCA about 30 minutes away or most often in my basement gym), I play volleyball about once a week, I ride my motorcycle and like to work on it when the weather is nice I know I have it better than alot of people, and I should be grateful for this, but that's not good enough for me. I want to be happy and that's just not the case right now. I applied with the FAA as an Air Traffic Controller, my application was accepted and I took the test and did very well but from the looks of it, it could be years before anything happens with that. The government is so slow at hiring and there has been many postponements in the process. I don't have time for that, I'm not going to work at a soul-killing job in the meantime. Part of me wants move away and start over (where it's warm) but I don't know if that will change anything, and I'm afraid that I'll be leaving the last piece of the puzzle that is keeping me sane (my family). I've always been a happy person, but I feel like I am dipping into depression Help.