OK, first I guess I need to give a little background. Last May I got a girlfriend. Her parents are pretty religious. Anyway, me and her really hit it off. Her parents didn't really seem to like me because of the fact that I didn't serve a mission. So it seemed as if they were jumping to the conclusion that I was a bad person and not worthy of their daughter. Anyway, she left for 2 weeks to go to Hawaii and then back to California where her parents live. It had been pre-arranged that I would fly down to meet them. Anyway, when she got back to California, I flew down and met them. I was pretty nervous because I knew they weren't sure about me and wanted to leave a good impression. So when I went down there, I did my best and thought I made a good impression for them. I met them a couple more times when they came up to Utah to visit 3 of their kids that lived up here. They seemed to be relieved that I was a good guy and they didn't have anything to worry about. I broke up with her last November, but we have remained friends. Anyway, she took a week off work to go to visit them. She talked to me online today and was pretty upset with them. Turns out that even after they had met me a couple of times they still didn't trust me and did a background check on me (her dad does some kind of government work and had access). And of course, they found nothing more than they didn't already know, except for 2 speeding tickets. Anyway, I don't know why, but this has really affected me more than I think it should have. I'm finding this REALLY hard to deal with. I thought I was in their good graces and it turns out they still thought I was a complete scumbag. I just try to do my best and be nice to everyone, just basically be a good guy overall. It just makes me feel like I'm not worthy of things that I work so hard to acheive because I'm still not trustworthy. I just don't know how to cope with it.