...I didn't ask, I just told her she's coming with me and to be ready in an hour and a half. I haven't seen this girl in almost 4 years. Telling her instead of asking her worked, but only so much. She said she can only hang around for a few hours then she wants to stop off at some of the other parties she was invited to. EDIT: I miss understood her, she said an hour and a half should be enough for her to get ready. But she said she wants to get to another party by 10pm or her friends will kill her. I'm trying to negotciate for more time.