My first gf broke up with me in April. It took me about 3 months before I finally started talking to other girls. I've approached and talked to 7 girls so far and I keep fucking striking out. Girls 1 & 2: We had good conversations and complimented each others looks. I thought I was doing well, out of the blue they mentioned that they had boyfriends. I'm pretty sure that they both really had bf's, so at least I take some comfort in knowing that they were just giving me excuses. Girl 3: I actually had a shot with her but I psyched myself out of it somehow. She was in one of my summer classes and we got along really great. The last day of class she realized that I'm not going to ask her out so she got kinda stuck up and told me that she's romantically interested in me. I froze, didn't ask her out, the class ended, and I never saw her again. Girl 4: Meet her at school. We got along ok, but she was kinda bitchy and was sending me some signals that she's not interested. So I just stopped talking to her cold turkey. I still see her 2 times a week but we never talk. I figure if she had some interest she would talk to me but she doesn't. Girl 5: Meet her at a bar. Talked, got her number, and we were supposed to go out. She said her friend was in town that week, but she'll call me back and let me know what her plans were. I never heard back from her, and I never called her back. End of that. Girl 6: Meet her tonight at a bowling alley. She was only in town for 1 week from college because of thanksgiving break. We were talking, bowling, I complimented her, got to know her a little, made her laugh. I asked her what her plans were for after bowling and she said she had work in the morning so she had to go home. I told her i'm having a good time with her, and I wanted to know if she wanted to hang out again before she had to go back to school. She said no because she has to work a lot. Later on I overheard he talking to my buddy and she was asking him if she was gonna be at this party tomorrow. So yeah I was rejected. Girl 7: She's in my philosophy class. I had a pretty good conversation with her last week but I never got her number. I ran into her tonight at the bowling alley and we talked for a bit. At the end of the night, I went up to her and told her that me and my buddy are leaving and that I'll see her next week. I'll ask her for her number if I get a chance next week, but at this point i'm wondering if she's gonna reject me as well, because i'm probably doing something consistently wrong. So all of these girls I was cool with. I played everything cool, I kept the conversations light, made them laugh, compliments, and showed them that I was interested in them. So far I'm 0/6 and I'm wondering what I'm doing wrong. My first gf, I basically never talked to her at first, and she ended up asking me out. I was kinda an asshole to her, so i'm assuming that's why she stuck around. I don't want to take that route with girls anymore though. I want to be nice, but confident. It's not really working. WTF????