/ego. Seriously. Got this problem. Here ya go. I'd like advice from ladies mostly. I know the rhetoric from a guy's point of view. Thanks So I haven't dated for a while. In over 2 years to be exact. It's been hellish. I'm not a player. Not a fucker and leave her guy. I'm actually a romantic. Ok, yes I'm a lamo deal with it. I've asked a couple woman out in the last couple months that have intrigued me intellectually but nothing has come of any of that. I thought 'hey.. as long as I'm trying right?' That's the attitude I've been cruizin on for the last couple years. Now.... well NOW. Something has come up that just destroys that philosophy. I saw someone. Yes I SAW someone. I'm not even going to explain what I mean here. Did I talk to her? Kinda... Ok, now I have a problem. These fucking emotions. They are . Thoughts of her have seeded pretty deep in my mind which is equally . Why? Because I can't claer my head. I clear my head and her face is there. It's fuckin rediculous. I haven't had emotions like this in years. God... it's like I've been given a bike and all the old instincts are coming back. So why am I posting here right? Well... I need to do something about it. (life goes on right?) I could ignore it. I'm pretty sure I could get over the emotions if I changed habbits and kept busy. Yes, this I could do. But, the thing is I don't want to ignore it. So 99% of my hormone filled mind is telling me to quench this thirst. THAT is why I'm posting here. Like i said I've asked woman out this past year. Rejection wasn't really an issue. I had a take it or leave it attitude. This is different and while yes rejection would hurt that's not why I haven't done the deed yet. My problem is I can't really talk to her. She works somewhere I go and she is constantly with customers and while asking people out at work is sometimes ok it would be... well... a bit uncouth... in the environment she's in. So THAT and then there's the fact that I haven't really talked to her. It would be asking her out out of the blue. This thing has gotten me stressed. My mind is coming up with stupid romantic shit that you did in highschool to get a girl. Which my romantic (and idiotic) side is urging me to do. Hormones right? So how do I proceed from here? I know patience is a virtue and all that and yes I'm willing as far as that goes. I might just need to wait untill I get a chance to talk to her and build a friendly relationship. ( I'm not a friendzone type of guy btw. ) But I thought I'd ask the woman's club in the vag to throw some light on the subject. thanks btw.. I'm a decent looking guy. and she is ... well... she's her.