So I finally met a girl that I feel like I have a lot in common with (we're both CSC majors, etc, etc), and we've gone out to dinner and movies about 7 or 8 times. Some of those times, I've asked her to go, and sometimes she's asked me. This is also the first girl I've ever been out with more than once. I usually get a nice big hug at the end of the night, but other than that, I've really had no inclination that we're moving past dinner together or seeing a movie together. How can I find out if she's interested in being more than friends? One friend of mine suggested that I ask her where we're going with this, and to tell her that if she just wants to be friends, that's cool, but that I'd like us to be more serious than just friends. What do y'all think?