I left my home town about a month ago, and moved almost half way across the country. I didn't like it much there, stuck in a dead end job, mother kept fucking with my schedule(thats a whole different story in its entirety), and had been messed up by a bad breakup several years ago. I just felt that i needed a change of pace and a new location. So I picked up and left. I had started making plans to do this over a year ago, I have the full support of my family and friends. But recently I have been thinking about a girl that I had gotten to know. We even had the conversation about if "things were different" there might be something, though we kept a distance. But I needed to go, I needed to see this transition though. But now that I am here I just want to be back there with her. I have been warned never to move for a girl, but I know there is a connection there. I am just not sure if going back and trying is a good idea. I'm not sure if I should(or how to) talk to her about it, she is in her last semester and is extreamly busy. She is bright, beautiful, a little wacked in the head but I know her issues and am ok with them. I am just not sure if it is the right thing to do. And I could use some advice. thanks.