Ok heres the deal for a long time now (about 5 yr's or so) ive been really wanting to go see a physictrist and more now than ever. There is a situation i went through in my life that ive never discussed with any one but i feel the backlash from it is affecting my ability to be all that i can at work as a wife and as a general human being. The problem is i dont know how to tell my husband i need this type of treatment. I feel like if i tell him i want to see a shrink then he will think i cannot confide in him. I would tell him but like i said i have never told anyone and the thing that i went through is rather complicated. How can i tell him without hurting his feelings?