Okay so I met this girl on Facebook a couple weeks ago. She messaged me so I knew she was interested. I responded back to all her messages with (IMHO) a great cocky & funny attitude. I think she was getting hooked. So after about a week and a half of her messaging me everyday to every other day I felt that her interest level was high enough to meet up and hang out. So I told her I had to do some shopping at the mall and told her to meet me there this last Saturday, which she gladly did. I had a great time with her at the mall and the rest of her is cute too . But we only hung out for about 2 hours and I suggested getting lunch but she said she wasn't hungry because she had a late breakfast so she was just going to take off. By the end of the 2 hours together I couldn't tell her interest level anymore. I'm not sure if I wasn't what she expected or not. I told her thanks for going shopping with me, and I made 1 big mistake... I asked her if I could call her again... I shouldn't have asked, I know it was a wussy thing to do. I should have told her I would call her again. But I think I did everything else right and 1 little mistake might go unnoticed, and she said yes that I can call her again sometime. I got a hug and we went our separate ways, because we were parked on opposite ends of the mall. Now here's my question. I am not desperate nor do I want to come across as desperate, but I dig this chick and I think she digs me but I can't really tell. I haven't messaged her or called her since I last said goodbye on Saturday. And she hasn't messaged me at all since then either. Which is kind of odd because she was messaging me every other day before we met. But she could just be waiting for me to show some interest first... I'm not sure. How long should I wait to contact her again? I would like to hang out with her this Friday because this Saturday is Mothers Day, but is that too soon? And how soon should I message or call her again? I was thinking about messaging her today. Is that too soon? Again I don't want to come across as desparate but I want to get to know this girl. Please forgive my dating ineptness... I haven't dated since high school. Cliffs: Girl I never met messages me. She looks cute and seems interested in me. I tell her to come to the mall and meet me and go shopping. I had fun but couldn't tell if she did or not. How soon can I contact her again?