Ok well here it goes. Recently i started talking to this girl, we would talk, hangout and just have a good time. After a week or so i found out that she was recently married and her husband was in the army and not around. Anyway, so we started getting closer and then one night we played around on webcam with eachother a little (kinda just happened). So then things started to get a little more serious, but never anything physical. Now the problem is, she told me she loves me as more then friends and I stupidly said i felt that way (which i do). Then lastnight she told me she was thinking about leaving her husband because im all she can think about. Now im starting to feel weird. Shes 23 and im 20 and shes talking about leaving him and getting with me and getting married and having kids, and i am in no way ready for any of that. I need some advice how i can kind of fix this. I do love her but im not ready for a serious relationship and i really dont want her to leave her husband. I also really feel like i cant say those 3 words to her anymore and im having a hard time having a conversation with her without giving her short answers that upsets her and we end up hanging up. Please help!