Long story short. I dated a 32yr old single mom for a 18 months. She wanted a more serious relationship than me, we broke up. She hooked up with some guy and got pregnat a few weeks later. She is about to have the baby and move out of state with him. I went to see her today to make a copy of a tape we made last yr (vacation and XXX stuff). Im happy to say I finally seem to be over her. I have been kicking my self in the ass for not wanting to get serious and thus losing her. But spending the day today with her 6yr old kid, her mom (that lives with her) and seeing her 9 months pregnat made me realize I would be miserable having to live with all those peole. So while I still do care about her, I no longer love her. BUT............... I still think about the sex we had. She is the best I've ever had. I havent been able to find anything remotely close to her. And here is where I got bent out of shape. We were talking about how much we missed each other, etc, etc. And some how the subject of sex came up. And somewhere along the conversation she said. "Well baby, you know that our sexual chemistry wasnt our forte. We connected more in an emotional level." WTF??!! This has totally fucked with my self steem. How is it possible that the partner that I consider as my "best" sex partner does not feel like that about me maybe thats what I get for messing w/ girls 11yrs older than me. Too much damn experience and ther expectations are too high Any one else ever face something similar? How did u deal with it?