Here recently the gf and I have been fighting alot, nothing to do with us as a couple but more our current home situation. I bought a house I knew was a fixer upper and moved into it with the intention of getting it all squared away before she and her daughter moved in. Well the repairs are taking longer than I anticipated and im way over budget, no big deal to me shit happens as I see it and it will get done when it's done and it's over budget okay that sucks but I know the shits done right and I wont have to mess with it again for 30 or 40 years. Anyways the GF ran into some difficulty with her home, the landlord changed the place to a retirment community no kids allowed and basicly told her you have 60 days to get your shit and get out. So, she moved into the house with her daughter. At first I didn't think it was a big deal but we are all living in 1 bedroom, I work full time, full time college student, remodeling house every spare minute I have, getting around 4 hours of sleep a day. Anyways all this lack of sleep and privacy came to a head last night and we had this huge fight. Ended up telling her to get her shit and get out if shes going to be this way. The whole fight was over internet, the way I see it is it's 50 bucks a month we don't have to spend right now, the way she sees it she absolutly has to have internet its non negotible. Both of our hours are getting cut and combined wages barely, and I mean barely puts us over the poverty line. So, she starts crying and going on and on about how I fail at life etc etc etc and all i wanted was for her to leave. Anyways, I didn't shed a tear, I felt no remorse, I still don't feel anything except kind of guilty. I know your standard responce is going to be dump her, move on, etc etc. But what I want to know is, is a lack of emotional responce to such a situation mean I don't love her? I have never been an emotional person, I didn't cry when my grandma or grandpa passed, and honestly the last time I think I cried was getting paddled in 5th grade. I don't know what I would do without her but at the same time according to tv and magazies and books and shit people are supposed to have a emotional responce to shit like that and I just dont. Is something wrong with me?