TwistedMind
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- Mar 20, 2004
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okay so I have been exclusive with my girlfriend for 7 months now, we have been dating for 9 months or so and we have known each other for a year.
I love her but I am starting to wonder if we are right for each other.
I recently learned as of this morning that shes a closet racist. Ever since Obama won the election shes been n word this n word that, talking about how someones going to shoot him etc etc.
I guess I should have seen it comeing since shes from louisiana but this just completly took me off guard.
Another thing that has me questioning our relationship is her family. Her dad drives me up the fucking wall. He never shuts up, its so bad that I don't even want to go to their house anymore. He constantly puts her down and tells her shes worthless.
I talk to her about how I think its fucked up and she shouldn't let him do that and she gets all pissed off at me for talking shit about her dad then we fight.
I don't know what to do. I can't change the fact that shes racist, at least I don't think I can. I also have n fucking clue how to deal with her dad except asking her to move in with me, but I don't know if thats such a hot idea now that I find out shes a racist.
HELP
im 27 shes 25
I love her but I am starting to wonder if we are right for each other.
I recently learned as of this morning that shes a closet racist. Ever since Obama won the election shes been n word this n word that, talking about how someones going to shoot him etc etc.
I guess I should have seen it comeing since shes from louisiana but this just completly took me off guard.
Another thing that has me questioning our relationship is her family. Her dad drives me up the fucking wall. He never shuts up, its so bad that I don't even want to go to their house anymore. He constantly puts her down and tells her shes worthless.
I talk to her about how I think its fucked up and she shouldn't let him do that and she gets all pissed off at me for talking shit about her dad then we fight.
I don't know what to do. I can't change the fact that shes racist, at least I don't think I can. I also have n fucking clue how to deal with her dad except asking her to move in with me, but I don't know if thats such a hot idea now that I find out shes a racist.
HELP
im 27 shes 25