is this a common rule for women? any of you guys been told this? I've experienced this a few times. last night I was told this by a very good looking girl. her reasoning was that she didn't want a guy that took longer than her to get ready, but that can't be the case can it? I think it comes down to attention. the women who say this can't stand the idea of going out with a guy and having him receive more attention than her. I know that my ex wouldn't upload photos where she thought I looked better than her and when we went out, I'd hold the attention from both sexes (though this has more to do with my energy level more than anything I believe). I can understand if you are not attracted to the typical "pretty boy" but I'm not necessarily talking "pretty," just "more attractive." though I would like to hear thoughts on pretty boys, as I tend to be accused of being one. What is the vag's thoughts on the subject? are women who say this datable?