Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by JohnJohnJohnson, Apr 4, 2006.
Is that bad girlfriend material?
I wouldn't say so, but that's just me..
As long as she isn't sexin other guys at the same time, I don't see why not.
Take her to vet and get her checked out though
most guys i know consider that whorish. but, be open enough to take into consideration what her other actions say about her personality.
tough to say, i think itd be a warning sign
Depends on what you're looking for.
The only thing I would think it means is that she has slept with a lot of guys. I don't think it means she would be quick to cheat, or be a bad girlfriend, she probably just doesn't value sex as much as a really religious girl or someone.
I would say it it definitely whorish, but not necessarily the makes of a "bad gf". My gf put out two hours after meeting me, and it would be correct to say that's an indicator that she's had a lot of dick. It's not a fact I'm crazy about but as far as her gf-quality goes, I can't complain.
a "not so great gf material" warning?
It means she's a giver. And that means that she's a keeper!
I think he means: if you want someone who places high value on intimacy, or just gives it up to everyone she meets right off the bat.
I don't really see how a high sex-drive is connected to how good of girlfriend they will be. I'm sure she has probably slept around a bit, but it just means she values sex (like someone else said) differently than other people, which doesn't necesarily make her a bad person.
Should it make me jealous if she has been with a lot of guys?
only if you're insecure.
So you think she probably doesn't care much about intimacy. Some girl who can't involve her emotions during sex? That sounds like bad gf material to me.
It depends on your values. It's kinda like religion and politics. It's something that is preferable that you be on the same page about. If you're a man-whore, you should expect the same from whatever woman you choose to settle with (should you eventually choose to settle down, that is). If you have been a little bit more conservative sexually, you would likely not want to get meaningfully involved with, say someone who did amature porn all through college.
Bad-gf/good-gf is all subjective here. It depends on where you're coming from and what you think would be a good match.
I don't have any values other than that I don't like people to get hurt, including myself. If she's never going to feel intimacy with me during sex, and if I eventually do feel intimacy during sex, that will hurt me.
Well, it almost depends on your take of it also...It takes two to have sex on date two. So if you are ok with sexxing her on the second date, I don't see why you should have moral qualms about her. Double standards, not?
just cause she gave it up to you quick doesnt mean she gives it up to everyone quick. sure, its more likely that she does.... but its not necessarily true. sometimes you just know a good thing when you see one.
just cause its on the second date doesnt mean she doesnt value intamacy.
Well, what if she's had one-night stands before? If so, doesn't that mean she can't feel intimacy during sex?
People are more complicated than that.
That's true, but I know that I can feel intimacy during sex even though I also can have sex without intimacy because I'm a guy. Guys are pretty much equipped to be able to enjoy sex without intimacy, but to still be able to have sex with intimacy.
or, that she can separate the two. sometimes sex is just sex. othertimes, its more.
but one night stands, or otherwise having sex outside of a monogomous relationship is irresponsible, and implusive. perhaps thats what you should be really concernced about. while it works, and is ok for some people...is that ok with you?
she's clean, so i have to assume she's been responsible. impulsiveness is only ok for me if it doesn't mean cheating