If you started seeing this girl.... Ok... lets just put it this way. I've started seeing this great guy. I've been seeing him about a month now and I'm crazy about him. Things are going slow which is great. We have not really gotten very physical much yet but I think we are starting to close in on that phase. I'm not quite sure if I should tell him about my past yet. I believe I was drugged and I was raped twice one night after I turned 20 about 5 1/2 years ago. There have been a lot of rough edges I've had to get through but I'm doing a lot better with it and handle it better than I used to. I haven't decided whether it's something I should just try and let go of and not tell him or if I should tell him. I'm afraid it's going to leave a lot of questions that I can't really understand and answer. There is a strong possiblility he may know this person who did it and always a chance we could run into him since I have seen him around before and he has tried to approach me which flips me out. He's the type of guy no one would ever think would have ever done that kind of thing... and his father is also a cop. I really don't know if it's better to tell him or not. If it were your girl... would you want to know?