.....do you let her call you all the time? or you call her first? and how often? ive been seeing this girl and she always calls me everyday (at least twice a day) and if she doesnt i get lil worried i see her every weekend at work....and until last week, i used to see her every other day and go out to have dinner or just chill at her apt. now i havent seen her for a week since beginninng we already let out our feelings towards each other (she was the one that mentioned it first). that she likes me alot and no one else...yet shes not ready for relationship coz she just got out of 1year4months relationship. we our really close to each other and she always likes holding my hands and kissing me before (but not lately)....we had our first sex 2weeks after we were seeing each other.....but that was it- so yea, ive been in dry spot with her since then. i brought it up last night and she said coz she has alot of things in her mind and sex is the last thing. which is true coz shes going through alot with work and family stuff. also she always talks to her mom about me and tells me how much her mom loves me and wants to meet me. but yet her exbf still calls her and she cant cut him loose coz he is suicidal. and she doesnt wanna be responsible if something happens to him. yet, she gets jealous when other bartenders are hitting on me. i think im thinking too much into it. i really like this girl alot..and hell, even our co-workers noticed it. the only time i fucked up with her was when i flipped out on her two weeks ago for no reason....then did it again couple days later. which i apologized. i pretty looked into things too much and accused her of something (i have a hard time trusting girls ever since my exgf) im just wondering how long should i stick up with this.