What is your opinion on knowing about your partner's history? I'm 28 and I've had two long-term relationships which I honestly would have done differently [date around] considering they didn't "last" [3 and 5 years respectively]. I've been seeing this girl for the past two months, we met through mutual friends at a bar. She's extremely upfront and honest and sometimes friends will ask her "are you really still seeing that guy? [me]" and she explains to me that what they mean is that she typically doesn't last very long with guys and is kinda always out with a new one. It seems like anytime we go out and there's a guy that she knows it's someone that she's been with. My previous girlfriend of five years I never asked her about her past. It's not that I didn't care -- I guess it's a curiosity thing for any girl I'd date but I just don't want to hear something that I don't want to hear and have it be a sabotage for us. I realize that at my age the number of girls out there with comparable histories to me are practically nil -- I still just don't feel comfortable about someone who has been with 30+ guys. And I'd feel like a total scrub breaking it off with someone just because they were with X amount of guys before me -- the past should stay the past. So is it reasonable to stop seeing someone because of an uncomfortable past? Is it best to just bask in ignorance? Is this something I should work on being able to handle or should I seek out girls who have acceptable-to-me hs pasts?