I know I have a strong sex drive - the porn, embarrassing Facebook messages, and the sheer thrill of the build-up to sex proves that. However, when it comes down to the actual process of sex, I get bored rather quickly. It's not as if I don't put any effort in. I like to think I make the girl feel special, and I make out I'm having a fun time. But when I'm laying there will the girl is passionately kissing me, my mind often wanders. I feel like I'm doing everything in sex, because that's what I'm meant to do ... not because I actually get a thrill out of it. And then on goes the condom and the fucking begins. The latex wrapped around my penis makes me feel like I'm having sex with a plastic bag. I go to kiss and touch her, but unfortunately my mind wanders again. Many times after sex, I have woken up alone much later and thought to myself, "bloody hell, why didn't I enjoy that?". I sometimes get all flustered and horny - eager to grab another partner, but when I do the vicious circle continues. Does anyone else have/had this problem? And are there any solutions? Thanks a lot, guys.